All you single ladies

Why are we always pin-holing ourselves to a future where “I’ll be happy once I’ve met the one?”

We say things like “I’ll finally be okay once I am in a relationship.”

Or believe that “My life will finally begin once I’m with my God’s Best.”

These mindsets are truly hard to break because we have been brainwashed by society that it takes a man to finally get our happy ending.

But we have already experienced our happy ending!

When Jesus died on the cross for you, He has already secured your future.

When He tore down the veil for you, He has already opened up the Gates of Heaven for you!

When He shed His blood for you, He has already conquered sin and death so that you, a sinner like me can now experience the immeasurable divine love of our Father in Heaven.

So, girl, you don’t need a man to find your identity.

Jesus has already given you yours. You are a Daughter of God. You are His and He is yours.

So do not conform to the ways of this world. Banish those lies the enemy has planted in your heart by declaring it in the name of Jesus.

Look for the truth –> the truth is Jesus.

There is no bigger satisfaction in this world other than allowing Jesus into your heart.

Tell me, why are you still rooting for that guy whose eyes are already fixed on another woman? Or maybe, why are you letting that guy lead you on without him having any intentions to commit to you in the long run?

You deserve better, and by better it is Christ.

Let Him work His way into your life. Experience His never-failing, never-ending kind of love.

Be romanticized by Him.

Be captivated by Him.

Be enthralled by Him.

I pray that as you journey in this season of waiting, you will find the joy in the process.

He is our Good Good Father. He will not keep you waiting a second later nor a minute earlier because He works in His perfect timing.

It’s up to you how you will respond to this promise.

Will you still wait longingly in dreamland or will you actively wait on God to bring you His Best in His good, pleasing and perfect time?

Stay captivated,

One thought on “All you single ladies

  1. Thank you so much for the very inspiring and wise words. We need to be captivated by Jesus. It is a great error for ladies to fall into that trap of men who have no intention of marrying them. When they do this, they have compromised and those men will only see them as their comfort and convenience but never their commitment. They end of tired, used and abused. May God give us more grace, wisdom and life skills to be overcomers and not victims.

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